The Sugar DADDY Craze; My Personal Experience. 

By the Nigerian definition, a “sugar daddy” is a man, usually above forty years old who gives monetary favours and other forms of provisions to a girl usually young enough to be his daughter in exchange for sexual and other related services provided by the lady who is not his wife.  The word “daddy” is…

IF YOUR BED COULD TALK! (5 AREAS YOU SHOULD NOTE )

As the title of this article says : If your bed could talk?….  The question is : ” What would it have to say about you? ”  This is the question that I asked myself and now I am asking you?  Your bed has a lot to reveal about you:What would it say about your sleeping…

CHRONICLES OF ITUNU; SECRETS AND TRIANGLES 2

Previously on chronicles of Itunu, Secrets and Triangles 2 (1) “It’s fine. I know you are not mean. At least, you gave me pizza.” She chuckled.  “ You just stressed me. I was hungry before I came and that was why    Gloria… had to go buy food … for me” Itunu said barely managing…

Let’s Be CANDID! KNOWING SEX 2

I recieved  numerous comments, mostly outside the blog about part one. Here is part 2.  Part one covered 1 HOW,( a)Positions b)Time c) Parties but there are still points under how that would be discussed here. It goes thus: D) Starters: Initiating sex is a low key issue in most marraiges. Please, it is a two-way street….

Let’s Be Candid! “KNOWING SEX” 1 

If you are reading this; you must be wondering what this post is about or you should have guessed it. WELL, THIS IS PART ONE AND YOU WOULD ONLY GRASP THE FULL ESSENCE AFTER YOU READ ALL THE PARTS.  First and foremost; it’s about sex or Love making or whatever name one wants to tag…

THE PLACEBO EFFECT – BIMIDIAH. 

The mind is a beautful place. Maybe not always beautiful, but it is a place… The mind is powerful and more powerful than you imagine.  The dictionary definition of placebo is placebo : 1)– (Roman Catholicism )The vespers sung in the office for the dead. 2)– (medicine) A dummy medicine containing no active ingredients; an inert treatment….

TRUST ISSUES (KAMIKAZE )

The first time I heard the word “Kamikaze” was at the intro of a popular song in Nigeria at some point. It was “Yahoozee” by Olu Maintain. The song came with a  dance that drove people crazy, but that is besides the point. It sounded more like Kamakazee than kamikaze though.  The dictionary meaning of…

Hi May! 

Hello Everyone!   It’s May!  It is the month of my birthday!  (I could have just written” it’s my birthday month”, but I wanted it to rhyme with may!!! ) Covers face*. No apologies.  It’s the 24th of this month though, so don’t forget! Don’t you dare! (Does evil grin*) To the main point, I try…

NAGA I AM 

Hi guys,  It’s been a while.  This post has been a long time coming…  And it is titled  ” NAGA” BecAuSe Apparently I Nag !!! Yeah Yeah Yeah…..  I remember  the first day, My elder sister, said “God, Dunmo you are a nagger! ” But I was not absolutely paying attention to her, so I…

IFEOMA OJIAKOR story

CASE STUDY OF IFEOMA OJIAKOR whose husband,a serial wife beater dealt with on December 25. Some people do not have special days or holidays. It was a pre-boxing day  rehearsal literarilly! She  is alive,though and she can talk. According to reasonable sources. SHE POSTED THIS ON HER FACEBOOK WALL. “This is unacceptable This is my…

LET’S BE CANDID. IT’S MADNESS 3

LETS BE CANDID! IT’S MADNESS 3. (ACTUAL EXAMPLES) “They say all is fair in love and war, but to me all is not fair when love is war”- Jesudunmo Longe(KJD) In the previous discussions, we examined reasons why women stay in abusive marriages. Another reason is “love” and emotional attachment. This is a really sad…