The Sugar DADDY Craze; My Personal Experience. 

By the Nigerian definition, a “sugar daddy” is a man, usually above forty years old who gives monetary favours and other forms of provisions to a girl usually young enough to be his daughter in exchange for sexual and other related services provided by the lady who is not his wife.  The word “daddy” is…

Let’s Be CANDID! KNOWING SEX 2

I recieved  numerous comments, mostly outside the blog about part one. Here is part 2.  Part one covered 1 HOW,( a)Positions b)Time c) Parties but there are still points under how that would be discussed here. It goes thus: D) Starters: Initiating sex is a low key issue in most marraiges. Please, it is a two-way street….

Let’s Be Candid! “KNOWING SEX” 1 

If you are reading this; you must be wondering what this post is about or you should have guessed it. WELL, THIS IS PART ONE AND YOU WOULD ONLY GRASP THE FULL ESSENCE AFTER YOU READ ALL THE PARTS.  First and foremost; it’s about sex or Love making or whatever name one wants to tag…

I Like – KITARA 

I like,  A couple of things,  A lot of things,  Some things I like  A little more than I like others I like,   The wind blowing, breezing past my face and scalp Leaving refreshing auras in its airy wake  I like,   The joy in a baby‘s smile, innocent and pure Leaving mirrored expressions,  even though…

TRUST ISSUES (KAMIKAZE )

The first time I heard the word “Kamikaze” was at the intro of a popular song in Nigeria at some point. It was “Yahoozee” by Olu Maintain. The song came with a  dance that drove people crazy, but that is besides the point. It sounded more like Kamakazee than kamikaze though.  The dictionary meaning of…

“DEMONS WERE ONCE ANGELS” – KING JESUDUNMO 

Don’t worry this post is not about “Angels and Demons” per se. You should be able to guess from the title, what the post is about if you have been following blog posts in line with the current blog theme for the month of may (my birthday Month)… :D:D Anyone that is actually curious and…

LET’S BE CANDID! ” IT’S NOT THAT DEEP” 2

In case you missed part 1, where I candidly explained what you should NOT do after a break up or death of a partner. I mentioned four things in part one… So let’s be candid, Here are some more things you should not do especially if you want to move on.  Click here to read,…

LET’S BE CANDID !  It Is Not That Deep. 

I am tired of hearing of love stories gone wrong.  If you know anything  from my previous posts.  You would know that I am not a fan of dying for love… Die  for romantic love, kwa? Read the Definition of deep.  My life-defining mantra and principle  is that nothing is ever compulsory. Like nothing is…. except  making…

The love I want – Bimidiah

I have been told that love is a beautiful thing! I have been told that lust is a different thing entirely! Yeah-I kinda agree- I guess  In psychology class, I learnt of passionate and compassionate love and how over time, love becomes compassionate especially in older couples.  I somewhat agree!  I have read novels and stories about…

MY SISTER – KING JESUDUNMO LONGE (BIMIDIAH)

MY SISTER – KING JESUDUNMO (KJD) My sister,you are not defined by society.  Please, you do NOT  need a man to make you happy.  You are not a property to be owned, sold or inherited.  Your life does NOT start and end in marraige  You are more than what you can cook and clean…  For even…

IFEOMA OJIAKOR story

CASE STUDY OF IFEOMA OJIAKOR whose husband,a serial wife beater dealt with on December 25. Some people do not have special days or holidays. It was a pre-boxing day  rehearsal literarilly! She  is alive,though and she can talk. According to reasonable sources. SHE POSTED THIS ON HER FACEBOOK WALL. “This is unacceptable This is my…