This is a style post and the picture below is a preview of all the items and pieces of the look.
You know I have been preaching about love and showing and being love on the blog, right? Well, it’s kind of hypocritical of me to say show love when Once I’m stressed I practically walk with a huge frown on my face!
And It’s because I am actually stressed a lot of late and Nigeria is not helping matters at all!!
I was at the bank some days ago to pay for something important. On that faithful day, I had waited on the unreasonably long ( 2 hours) on a ridiculously long queue till it was literally two people before getting to me and the bank attendant said.. :”All those who are paying remita should try another branch! ”
I was paying remita, but I was confused!
1) The way he just said it was shocking and rude without concern that some people had been standing here. He just said “network is bad, try another branch!! ” I had a meeting for 1 o’ clock , so I was not about to “try another branch! “
The look on my face was like – “what is this one saying?? ” I had not had breakfast all morning and standing was not pleasant at all!!
I just left the bank tired and pissed. I struggled with my love policy. I could have started up a ruckus by going to the manager and explaining that someone so rude should not be attending people and representing the bank’s image, because he was doing a poor job or shouted at him directly !
I could have stated that they could easily have announced it on the bank public address system since they figured that network was bad !
But the guy was most probably tired and it was not his fault that network was bad. (Terrible excuses, by the way!! Presentation was poor and so was his customer service! But love helped me make up excuses for him! Jesus is Lord!
I just left and went to OPEYEMI FOOD CANTEEN, NATIONAL ARCHIVES and treated myself to nice hot ABULA AND AMALA… I was still pissed, but trust me.. It was easier to smile and say hello to people greeting me. Food is good! Life is not so bad!
Summary is that: Shit happens! Your reaction to shit does not have to be shitty!! Remain good and do not get tired of being nice… Smile. Live -Love
Now here are pictures for the fashion post :
This is an oversized PATTERN Jacket (Yes it is; but that is the way it is meant to be. THE SHOES ARE THE Colour POP; HENCE THE NAME: POP & PATTERN
My mum got the jacket for herself and my elder sister collected it for herself then gave me/or I collected it two months ago, since she cannot use it in law school.
They are both bigger than me, so usually I would adjust this to my size, but I figured that it was not neccesary and I have been wearing it like that ever since😆😇
Okay, Here is the guide to pulling this particular look off :
1) Confidence : It is immaterial if. you look like a clown; once you decide to wear something, wear it confidently. And for this look, you should at least pretend you know what you are doing;)
2 ) All else tight: If you decide to wear the big jacket, let all else be tight or your perfect size! I wore Jeggins/jeans! Don’t wear another big thing! You would look like a pregnant cat!
The face I would make below is the “Ki le leyii so bayii?? ” meaning “what is this one saying like this?? ” (Nonsense bank man… lol.. ) I can be petty sometimes.
3) Pop Piece : Your pop piece(s ) is anything but the jacket! STAY AWAY FROM THE BOLD COLOURS FOR THE BIG JACKET -This one has two basic colours: white and black! my shoes are the main pop piece:):) People would talk about them before the size of your jacket’ They were a gift, by the way!Special Thanks to the giver!
Here is the back view below :
Weh done, ma!
The bag is a gift from my mum… Most of my nicest pieces are from her. Covers face*
This is me being glad I am me!
Finally, the post is BIG (JACKET) BOLD (SHOES ) BEAUTIFUL (A CONFIDENT HUMAN)!
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Question of the day.
Are you tired of being nice? Here is a reason to not get weary of doing good. Why you should not shout at a rude banker!
And it is a promise!
Here is the promise!
And it is from the bible!
“And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. “(Galatians 6:9) – GET this Bible App SOON
Thank you for reading to the end.
Shoes/Heels : Rage
Jacket : R. E. Q
Jeans : RAINA (Ultra Jeggins)
Bag/Purse : CELINE (Paris)
PHOTO CREDIT: OREOLUWA OGUNBUNMI. (Thank you so much. )
Bimidiah cares… xoxo xo